That makes me wonder if for some reason his body mounts are better at isolating than yours?Those 2.8 mounts have a bunch of rubber, so seems like they would isolate better than you're seeing.What trans mount are you running? Is it blown?Something out of whack with the clutch/flywheel or torque converter? U Joints slightly worn?Just trying to think of what else could be causing or transmitting the vibration.
I want to point the finger at the 4.3 too. haha It seems something in the rotating assembly is out of balance.My thought on the U joints is the drive angle wasn't great with the blown mounts and now the u joints are showing signs of wear.Which makes me wonder if the driveline angles are off with the JTR mounts and somehow your son's truck got lucky. That would be worth measuring too. If the mounts are a different height than stock that could throw things off. Hopefully a spacer under the transmission can fix the problem if it is there.But U joints are stationary at idle, so I'm back to the first thought above.Could it be a slight miss at idle?Another option would be to raise the idle. When we first setup my 5.3 tune the idle was pretty low and along with other problems it did vibrate things a bit more. It's set around 800 now, which was pretty much copied from the Z06 tune we had on hand.